There is one question in everyone’s mind that self-help books are useful or useless. If it changes, our life or not? Does it do what it says? These books are worthless or worthy? The self-help book's purpose is to motivate and guide readers.
These books and the author cannot do the following things:
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Do not make you a milliner and billionaire, and
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Are not able to give you happy
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Are not manage your relationships good
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Do not abolish depression anxiety and
hopelessness
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Do not make you thin
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Do not give you a relaxed life
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Do not develop skills
What self-help books and authors can do is as follow:
- Guide
- Courage
- Improvement
- Motivates
- Strategies
- Formulas
It’s the human psyche
that he/she always needs someone that motivates and encourages them. Everyone
wants improvement and perfection it does take time and hard work. Happy lives,
weight loss, become a billionaire, and developing skills it’s all about your
implementation and continuous hard work. Books and authors do not overcome your
situations until you did not do it by yourself.
First, change yourself;
if you did that then you can do what you want because we cannot change
ourselves by applying the things which are not applicable. Examples: A person
reads a book every 8 or 9 days and said why I cannot complete the book. First,
this person should have to change him or her and read daily 5 pages of a book
than he/she completes the book.
If a person does not
work hard enough then nothing is going to change him/her neither a book nor an
author.
First, change yourself
then follow the strategies develop skills, and overcome with your specific
situation.
Take a lesson from
self-help books, learn how to improve, and apply them until successes. I read
an abbreviation of FOCUS at Winspire magazine YouTube and love it “F-Follow,
O-One, C-Course, U-Until, S-Successful”. You can do focus on the important and
necessary things and avoid unimportant and unnecessary things.
Make the plan and follow
the path of success. Your way of hardworking gives you success if you
continuously hard work you did it and if you do not change your way and
attitude.
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