English writer's popularity

English writers cover these entire topics in their lifetimes because these are not only book topics these are topics of life. We all bound ourselves to these entire topics. We are unhappy, unemployment, loss of love, romantic vibes, personality……       

·                  Love, suspense, happiness, become rich, joy, enjoyment, popular

Nowadays English is a medium of languages and it’s important for all of us. This is also a plus point for English writers that they know by everyone worldwide because of their self-help genre books. They discuss the problems of all mankind. Most people have well known the English language.

These topics give you popularity because people want to read these topics. People want the solution to their problems.

Books are a source of authentic information. These books cover those topics which are also used for research.

·       Everyone wishes to become an influential personality.

·       People want to become thin.

·       Discuss the problem of mankind

·       Use the medium of languages

·       Books are a source of authentic information. 

The reason to write the blog is to give awareness about languages. Every language and literature is very important. But nowadays English is a medium of the language worldwide so it is important to be fluent in the English language.

Also work on your motherland languages because whenever there are people to read, speak, and write language the language alive. When there is no one to read, speak, and write language the language dies.

We all cover these entire topics which are very helpful for others. It should also be translated into English to provide benefits to many people because the majority knows English better.

We should give importance to our own languages and try to make it our priority to promote them.

 

Are self-help books beings useful or useless?

There is one question in everyone’s mind that self-help books are useful or useless. If it changes, our life or not? Does it do what it says? These books are worthless or worthy? The self-help book's purpose is to motivate and guide readers.

These books and the author cannot do the following things:

·                  Do not make you a milliner and billionaire, and

·                  Are not able to give you happy

·                  Are not manage your relationships good

·                  Do not abolish depression anxiety and hopelessness

·                  Do not make you thin

·                  Do not give you a relaxed life

·                  Do not develop skills

What self-help books and authors can do is as follow:

• Guide 
• Courage
• Improvement
• Motivates
• Strategies
• Formulas

It’s the human psyche that he/she always needs someone that motivates and encourages them. Everyone wants improvement and perfection it does take time and hard work. Happy lives, weight loss, become a billionaire, and developing skills it’s all about your implementation and continuous hard work. Books and authors do not overcome your situations until you did not do it by yourself.

First, change yourself; if you did that then you can do what you want because we cannot change ourselves by applying the things which are not applicable. Examples: A person reads a book every 8 or 9 days and said why I cannot complete the book. First, this person should have to change him or her and read daily 5 pages of a book than he/she completes the book.

If a person does not work hard enough then nothing is going to change him/her neither a book nor an author.

First, change yourself then follow the strategies develop skills, and overcome with your specific situation.

Take a lesson from self-help books, learn how to improve, and apply them until successes. I read an abbreviation of FOCUS at Winspire magazine YouTube and love it “F-Follow, O-One, C-Course, U-Until, S-Successful”. You can do focus on the important and necessary things and avoid unimportant and unnecessary things.

Make the plan and follow the path of success. Your way of hardworking gives you success if you continuously hard work you did it and if you do not change your way and attitude.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Enjoy quarantine

From one corner to another corner of the world people faces the same problems lockdown and curfew. Quarantine is very problematic and boring for all of us. We bound to only homes. We cannot go to a picnic, shopping, and dinner. We all pray that quarantine stops very quickly and we enjoy freedom. Life goes as usual.

Students are also bored with online education and exams. Parents are also bored because they have the same busy routine in-home as usual. Before they have some time for themselves but now a day’s companies and schools gave a heavy burden on them and parents and students get rid of it. So, I have some tips to enjoy quarantine at home:

·                  Make a good relationship with Allah Almighty.

·                  Work on yourself for betterment.

·                  Plantation to clean the environment.

·                  There are a lot of books on different genre we can read it.

·                  We can bake and cook healthy meals and fruity desserts.

·                  Chattering with friends and family on mobile phones.

·                  Clean the home and decorate it.

·                  Planning for the future.

·                  Studying school books are compulsory.

·                  Give time to family.

·                  Work on developing skills.

·                  Work on written and oral communication skills.

·                  In quarantine, we have a lot of time to fulfill our dreams.  

I hope you all like these tips and ready to use them. I already use these tips and love them.

 

Coronavirus (COVID-19)

The world war with disease:

The world war with newly disease Corona Virus (COVID-19) Lockdown and curfew overall the countries were held. Every country develops strategies to isolate people.

Doctors also work for developing medicines. The causes of diseases still unknown but some precautions are revolving.

The novel COVID-19 attack on all those people whose immune system are weak mostly old people.

Now people are voluntarily isolated in their homes. The government also works for that. Yet Italy is highlighted on social media for highly dead rates.

 

Causes:

Corona Virus disease spreads primarily through contact with an infected person when they cough or sneeze. It also spreads when a person touches a surface or object that has the virus on it, then touches their eyes, nose, or mouth.

 

Symptoms:

People may experience:

·                  cough.

·                  fever

·                  tiredness

·                  difficulty breathing (severe cases)

 

Precaution:

·                  Rest and sleep.

·                  Keep warm.

·                  Use a room humidifier or take a hot shower to help ease a sore throat and cough.

·                  Isolate yourself voluntarily.

·                  Drink hot water after an hour.

·                  Use a face mask.

·                  Use hand sanitizers.

·                  Wash hands regularly.

·                  Be clean.

·                  Keep social distance.

·                  Cover your mouth while coughing and sneezing.

 

Personal space:

“The distance surrounding a person forms a space. The space within intimate distance and personal distance is called personal space”

Most people do not know anything about personal distancing. We always violate personal distancing. Some countries exercise personal distancing but some countries do not know the meaning of personal distancing and violate this.

“Personal space is the region surrounding a person which they regard as psychology theirs. Most people value their personal space and feel discomfort, anger, or anxiety when their personal space encroaches”

We should exercise personal space on these difficult days as well as on our daily routine.

Personal space is used as a symbol. Proxemics is the study of human use of space.

·                  Intimate space

·                  Personal space

·                  Social space

·                  Public distance

 

Lockdown and curfew:

Lockdown in all the countries isolated us. Some countries used curfew for isolating.

Masjids, markets, and shops, all locked down but only medical stores, hospitals, and vegetable shops are open.

 

Isolation:

The isolation is necessary to abolish this disease because it spreading from people to people. Social distancing is very important.

 

Something irritating:

The world is isolated due to COVID-19. Some people waste their time making memes and jokes on the Corona Virus. It is very irritating. We must play a serious role to overcome it but someone people are making memes on it.

 

We are helpless:

The Two Holy Mosques Khana Kabah and Masjid-e-Nabvi are closed due to COVID-19. This is very hurtful for Muslims all over the world.

Khana Kabah is always crowded with people. Masjid-e-Nabvi is also crowded with people but nowadays we saw that we cannot perform Umrah. On 24-March-2020 Saudi Arabian government canceled hajj for this year (2020).

That is our mistake that we lose these precious things.

We must ask for forgiveness from Allah (S.W.T).

The relationship needs time

Every relationship needs time. We lost many relationships because of time. We should give time to our relationships for healthy relationships. In our busy lives, we are bound only to a few things. We don't have time for our family and also for ourselves. This busy life leads us to materialistic relations and fake relationships.

We should give time to all relations.

 

                                Family……Friends…...Relatives……Neighbors

 

 

The chain of the relationship was not fulfilling without the relations with the book.

 

                           Family……Friends…...Relatives……Neighbors…….Books

 

Books are a good friend and give us knowledge, a vast vocabulary, experiences, lessons, and guidance, etc……….

We should give half or an hour daily to read books. When we are bound to these relations there is not enough time for us to waste.so, we live our lives with peace.

Time goes

Time passes by and it takes everything with its flow whether it is our age or precious little breaths. Alas! We can’t hold or stop the cruel flow of time. It doesn’t give us into regrettable or happy golden memories of the past, ongoing circumstances of the present, and an unpredictable future. We should appreciate every passing moment of quality time.

One must.

·                            Recognize his/ her skills or hidden talent or abilities.

·                            Not to Leave today’s work tomorrow.

·                            Live an aimed life because life without a purpose is worthless.

Decision-Making

Definition of Decision-Making: The action or process of making important decisions" 

As human being’s ethics are necessary for us. Similarly, decision making is also a part of life. Ethics and decision making belongs to human because animals do not need ethics and decision making, they are not so intelligent. And there are a lot of differences in human and animal lives.

“No man is a man without high morals and ethics” Memmat Murat Ildan. Ethics are our needs. Our relation becomes strong with ethics.  “A man without ethics is a wild beast loosed upon this world” Albert Camus saying that beautiful quotes, without ethics we are a wild beast because animals have no ethics. There are no rules for animals to live in. They live as they want. This is the main difference between humans and animals that animals live as they want but human lives and followed God’s rules and manmade rules. 

“It’s not hard to make decisions once you know what your values are” Roy E. Disney. When you take any decision stand on the decision because those people always succeed who not left the space.

“To not confront poor execution and behavior is to endorse it. To not reinforce good execution and behavior is to extinguish it” Dick Vermeil.

“If ethics are poor at the top, that behavior is copied down through the organization” Robert Noyce. The top and upper management behaviors are copied by lower management. So, if the top management behavior is good the lower management is also good. It is known by all of us that behavior is a key to change other's behaviors so we should. Change our behavior because of other behaviors.

Decision-making means to take a decision. All of us must take the right decision quickly. It is not a simple thing. It needs skills. Decision-making itself a skill, we should polish this skill by taking decisions. We don’t allow our children to take any decision at an early age. It is very hard for the children at teenage that they cannot able to take any single decision. They feel shy and uncomfortable at taking decisions. If we make the decisions, we will be confident.

Polish your Decision-Making skills it compulsory in daily life also in every field. Where you work, you should take the decision more.

In the business field, you are always at risk because of your decision-making skills. If your decision is right you are a successful business person. If your decisions are wrong then you are the poorer person because all of your bank balance is not yours after decision it’s all about you to make decisions.

We should polish our Decision-making skills and easy our life by taking decisions. The decision is very important to us. 

Research

Definition: "Collecting material on a particular subject" When we heard the word "Research" our reaction is so unbelievable. 

Oh, research, it's very tough I have not enough stamina to do research. Or collect so much information on a particular subject or topic. 

Having ABC knowledge of anything is much difficult but collecting research material is an interesting thing. 

Sometimes our reactions are too much unbelievable. And we run from these things. 

Research is not so boring but it takes too much time. People become tired after waking up for too many hours. Their reddish eyes want to rest. 

We should take an interest in collecting research material. 

Benefits of research: If we take interest in collecting research material we met with many benefits. 

1.               We travel for it.

2.               Traveling relax our minds.

3.               Collecting information.

4.               Collecting material.

5.               Capturing pictures.

6.               Met with new people.

7.               New experiences take place.

8.               View new things.

9.               We explore things.

10.            Many skills were developed.

11.            It's good enough to maintain or groom personality.

12.            Our thinking changes.

13.            Our perspective of life also changes

14.            New ideas encourage us. 

 We explore the things taking material and polishes our skills. Research is not a work of some days but research gives us a chance to explore the things and to learn things with beneficial skills. 

We should take an interest in such things. It is very important to learn with interest. It's up to us, how we can change boring things into interesting? or changes negativity into positivity.

Yes, I am in pain

Yes, I am in pain.

Yes, I am in pain with your words.

Yes, I am in pain with your actions.

Yes, I am in pain with your thinking about me.

Yes, I am in pain with your behavior. 

Yes, I am in pain with your conspiracy.

Yes, I am in pain with your promises.

My heart is crying and saying that are not those people who have pure souls...........

My heart is crying and saying that these are not human with a pure heart..........

But your acts like that you are very humble and lenient with me..........

Your hypocrisy is hidden but naked eyes can see the hypocrisy inside you.........

Why we give pain to people who love us?

Why we don't care about those who care for us?

Why we are so selfish?

Can anyone answer me?

Sometimes we are very upset and want to spread the reason for our mood that what's are the reasons behind our upset mood? So, these lines are written in an upset mood to express their feelings about life and the people.

Don't Showoff

Already there are so many problems in society. But today’s show off is the most common problem. People do not look at the situation or venue and show off the expensive things.

Before people hide their happiness in front of a sad person. It makes a very bad impression on others that we are sad and others are happy. There is not a single penny in the pocket but people borrow some money and show off the money. Nowadays people are borrowing money to show off.

Nowadays people eat something they upload a picture on social media. Sometimes this act is very irritating.

People saw that others are very sad but they celebrate their happiness. Going and traveling wherever they showoff that they make much money to travel and sometimes they making fun of the poor.

Many people don't have money to eat 3 times a day. The pictures of pizza and burgers on social media irritate them badly. 

In Ramadan, people are showing off their money by giving it to the poor on social media and capturing pictures with poor and needy people. All these create problems for white-collar people. They used to buy branded clothes, expensive mobile phones, and luxurious car.

PLEASE DON'T SHOWOFF:

·                  Money

·                  Cars

·                  Makeup

·                  Luxurious house

·                  Stylish and Branded Clothes

·                  Mobile phones

·                  Living standard

Please don't show off your, money and luxurious things on social media. Many people don't have these things and stuff. And after seeing these things on social media they wish all these things. When you don't fulfill anyone's wishes or needs then why you people irritate and remember someone of their need.